Saturday, August 9, 2008

A Beach Wedding with a "Fly-by"

Last weekend was just wonderful; I was honored to Officiate over the Wedding of Jamie & Fabian.

This terrific couple chose a Beach setting for their ceremony and we could not have had a more perfect day for it!

Surrounded by their families and friends, who had joined them for the weekend, Jamie & Fabian exchanged their wedding vows on the sunny and beautiful western shores of Lake Michigan in nearby Douglas, MI.

Since it was a beach wedding we tried to incorporate that into everything we did. Upon arrival at the Motel the guests found a gift bag on their bed from the bride and groom stuffed full of weekend essentials. We put in a program with their schedule of events, a disposable camera, a bottle of water, a little bag of snacks from the local confectioner. We also included bottle openers with seashell handles and Saugatuck shot glasses (Saugatuck picture frames for the Mom’s!). The cutest thing I ordered for them were these seashells with their names and wedding date imprinted on them, along with the phrase “Our Love Shell Last Forever”...check out the cake – you can see one that we used on the top of it...really too cute!

But it was much more than just a beach wedding; it was a full day of events; after the ceremony their guests were treated to a cake & champagne reception at our Motel, they all had dinner in town together at the White House Bistro, followed by a 1.5 hour sunset boat cruise on the Kalamazoo. We arranged all the transportation for them so all they had to do was get in the van and go! So easy for them and they had so much fun - the bride and one of her friends even had time to get their noses pierced (ouch!)

Michelle of V.S. Flowers, in Douglas MI, did a beautiful job on the flowers – as always!! Franny, of Cookies on Call, did a delightful seashell themed cake – one word DELICIOUS! Joyce Bluhm, of Bluhm with Joy, did beautiful hair and make-up for the Bride and the Maid of Honor. My darling daughter provided the digital snap-shots.


As part of the wedding Jamie & Fabian chose to incorporate a unity sand ceremony. Jamie (the bride) found some huge clam shells that she decorated; they used the sand from the very spot they stood on when they exchanged their vows – it was so romantic!

Their mother’s were honored with a flower presentation; to fit the beach theme of it all the couple decided to use a single Bird of Paradise instead of a Rose, it really was a beautiful ceremony (if I do say so myself!)

The BEST part of the ceremony that is really wish I could take credit for was the “fly-by” we received from a Marine jet...he dropped down so low he was nearly eye level with us, tilted his wings (a pilot’s version of waving “hello”) and then took off again! The crowd cheered and yelled, it was AMAZING! Out of what seemed like 15 plus cameras only one managed to be smart enough to take a photo of it - God Bless Chad! He's the only one the put a cemera in front of his eye -the rest of us were just lost in the moment! (I'll post it when I get a copy)

If we had just started the ceremony a few minutes earlier he would have flown by just as I pronounced them husband and wife but timing or not it was the highlight of the ceremony! Several guests asked me – “did you arrange that!?!” or “Did you know Fabian was in the Marine’s”. Although I joking took credit for saying “Hey, I’m a full service provider, I do it all” it was a touching gesture by an unknown pilot who will be remembered by the 30+ people in attendance at the wedding as well as everyone else on the beach that day. I’m sure it’s a story that will be told and re-told hundreds of times; so thank you Mr. Pilot, you are awesome!

The truly best thing about the entire wedding weekend with Jamie & Fabian is that I have two new friends that I adore and will cherish!! Over the course of planning their wedding with them and the weekend they, their families and friends all stayed with us we just all had a blast together. These were two of the most fun and down to earth people; we just all had a ball together! And they left me the absolutely sweetest card in their room when they left, I wanted to find her and hug her again!

Thank you Jamie & Fabian; for choosing to have your wedding celebration at our Inn and thank you for letting be a part of your wedding celebration. It truly was my privilege and an honor for me to Officiate over your wedding. We loved having you and your entire group here and we look forward to having you all back on your first anniversary!!

Monday, August 4, 2008

It was a Blue Day!

Well my perfect “no rain” record ran out the weekend of July 19th! I was so disappointed for the bride she really had her heart set on an outdoor wedding but when all was said and done, the location hardly matters. The important thing is she is now happily married to the man she loves!

The site they selected, Laketown Golf & Conference Center, was gorgeous - as always! This site has a beautiful rotunda room with floor to ceiling windows; we did the ceremony up on the stage with their guest seated just below on the dance floor. The entire ceremony went off with out a hitch, the Best Man and Maid of Honor came through with flying colors on their readings, Bride and Groom made it through their vows...it was all going so perfectly!

Once the ceremony was finished the photographer asked the guests to stand up and look towards the couple...apparently she took a little too long because next thing I know there is a loud crash and thud off to my left! It was the bride’s Grandmother hitting the floor! For a moment I pictured a trip to the ER and a ruined day but like a trooper Grandma was eventually helped up back into a chair. Poor woman I think she was more embarrassed about it all then anything else – at least I hope so. I’m sure she’s going to be bruised but I sincerely hope that’s the worst of it. Other than that (and the DJ messing he cues up) it was a perfect!

The rest of July was a fairly quite wedding month...last weekend on the other hand was much busier as I had weddings on both Saturday and Sunday, more on those in the next installment!

So our lesson for today kids is; no matter how well you think you have things planned or planned for everything you can never plan for the unexpected (like a Grandparent falling down or some rain on your wedding day) Just go with the flow!!

The important things is that you are marrying the one you love, which after all is the most important part of your wedding day. As long as at the end of the day you are legally married, nothing else really matters in the big scheme of things!

Have a joyful week and check back soon for details on the beach wedding that got a “flyby” and the Pirate wedding that I did on Sunday!

Rev. Hoot